Just in time for St. Valentine's Day - Fireproof is now out on DVD!
This is another movie about which I missed the hype when it first arrived in theaters. My neighbor, Amber, told me about it and was excited to begin "fireproofing" her marriage.
If possible, I cried more during this movie than Tess of the D'Urbervilles. But I also laughed just as much.
This is not a story about falling in love for the first time, it is about falling in love again after being on the brink of divorce. The couple in the movie had grown apart emotionally and financially. The tears in this story are shed out of compassion because most couples will identify with some of the problems with which this couple struggles. They also come from the joy in seeing how the husband is transformed and the wife's hardened heart softens. They come from seeing the influence of strong mentors in the workplace and the family. The tears come from seeing how strong a person can be using their own will power but how much more powerful is the grace and love of God working in a person's life. And, I have to add, a good father - the father in this movie was pivotal.
The laughter - well, since the husband in this movie is a firefighter we see the pranks pulled on rookies and the hysterical personalities in the group. This movie was made by Southern Baptist brothers who know how to lighten the message with plenty of laughter.
The commentary for this movie tells how one church in Georgia worked together to make this movie, of the previous movies they have produced (Facing the Giants and Flywheel) as well as the back-stories of the actors and sets. Martial counsel is also given in golden nuggets - about God's design for marriage. About a man's desire for respect and woman's desire to be loved. About the difference between a contract (you are mine) and a covenant (I give myself to you).
My three favorite parts of this film:
- the ending
- the commentary
- the "While I'm Waiting" montage
The Love Dare is available and I would love to hear from anyone who is trying this at home!
*** the makers of this film purposely made this movie acceptable for older children to watch.
